It look and sounds awful until you meet the kid with RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder) this bond up to 18 mos old is so important. If it’s going to change a generation and make them compassionate then so be it. Research RAD. I bet you know someone who had it and never knew what their issue was.
“Racism,” you said, “is the biggest cancer of my lifetime. And I know I can’t cure the cancer, but doesn’t somebody have to attack it?”